Within this demimonde exists a variety of dynamics. And at the risk of painting with too wide a brush, I find it easy to break them down into three general categories: fleeting encounters, enduring connections, and lasting relationships.
And there is beauty in the fact that within all three exists the ability to leave a lasting impression on one another.
For example:
I vividly remember a piece of philosophical career advice once given by a person with whom I met for 90 minutes, three years ago.
Then there is the human I’ve known for .. oh .. eight? We saw each other nearly every week for years, then lost touch due to life intervening. When we reconnected, it was incredibly heartening to hear his take on how far I’ve come in the years since we’d seen one another. Career, athletic pursuits, but most importantly - happiness. To get the feedback from a third party on how differently I shine these days was impactful.
I have friends with whom the connection definitely falls under the header of “relationship” - people who have bestowed tangible services that have served to better and enrich my existence.
The list goes on … And each instance serves to make me want to treat those with with whom I spend time with as much respect and positivity as they give to me.
I truly feel lucky to know and have known so many people who see me as an equal and who leave an indelible mark on the topography of my life.
Thank you!